Heaven

One Month to Go

2006-10-26T12:37:00.000+08:00

Yes, it’s been two months and I haven’t updated our blog. So what’s new?

One month to go and we’re ALMOST done with everything, down to the itty bitty details of how the misalette would look like, the script of the emcee, table set-up, confetti and other kikay stuff are all ready for our big day…. Here’s an update of what we’ve been up to for the past two VERY BUSY months of September and October…

Church – St. Pancratius Chapel
We were so eager in paying the final installment for the St. Pancratius Chapel in Paco Park, but we were told to comply with all the requirements first, including the seminar and canonical interview before we could give our final payment. Okay…. So all our documentary requirements are ready for submission on November 4, 2006, just in time for our Canonical Interview. What would the priest ask us? Hmmmm….

Reception Venue - Teatrillo
Done. Fully paid.

Gowns and Barong
All my entourage female members’ measurements were already taken by Tita Beng (mom of a former officemate in LRTA). There would be a fitting on the 11th of November and final fitting/distribution on the 18th. We were also able to pick a barong and pants for Manuel just last weekend! Final installment of payment, upon delivery.

Caterer – Kusina ni Kambal
Fully Paid. We have to set another meeting with Kusina so that we can see the actual arrangement of the guest table and that of the principal sponsors. We also gave them a picture of how we would like the couple’s table be set-up. We will not have the usual gazebo since I feel both of us won’t fit in there! Hehehe, parang masikip. And besides according to Kusina, their gazebo is so tall it wouldn’t fit inside the Teatrillo because of their low ceiling.

Invitations – Unifair
So we thought I’d do-it-myself our invites. Just felt it would also be costly so we chose the reasonably-priced Unifair. Erwin and Shirley were both very accommodating and promised to have them ready for pick-up by first week of November. I try to call them every week to follow-up on the progress, and as of yesterday our invites are already in production. I’m already excited of how they will turn out!

Photo and Video – Junasan Digital
We already had our pre-nup last September 24 at the Pag-Asa Observatory but prior to that, had a really upsetting hair and make-up experience with the F Salon. I had to re-do my make-up myself! To add up to the disappointment, the photographer came 1 hour late and told us that the client scheduled ahead of us came an hour late too. We were so pissed off that we called George Junasan and informed him of the situation. We proceeded with the pictorial (not on our best moods) so as not to waste the time and money spent for the day. George assured us that the photographer will not be late on our wedding day… aba dapat lang!

Entertainment/ Music – SJT Strings/ Sound System
Already finalized and submitted our songlist!
Paid in full the sound system to be used in the reception.

Coordinator – Marlene Flores
E-mailed her the program flow and script to be used in the program that I adapted from a close friend’s wedding (you know who you are). Thanks friend! Marlene and I will meet on November 4 to talk about wedding details.

Wedding Bands – China City Plaza
Done. Got a real deal with this one.

Bridal Car – Adeb Trans
Paid downpayment. Great deal too!

Hotel for Bridal Preps – Manila Hotel or Manila Pavilion?
Will find out next week!

Misalette – DIY
Already for production c/o my Mom.

Shoes
Purchased from Wade and Linea Italia. Manuel is so passionate about Italian shoes kasi.

AVP
On-going development by Manuel’s brother, Ferdy. The other AVP to be prepared by my sister Iyay and her BF Chano.

Here’s our entou…

Bridal Entourage

Principal Sponsors
Melquiades Robles - Divina Guison
Cesar Chavez - Daisy Reyes
Eduardo Ong - Irene Montalbo
Mitchell Uy - Amelia Al Tamimi
Edgardo San Juan - Lisa Clay
Rolando Repotente - Emma Hizon
Wilfredo Alday - Susana Vergara
Mamerto Pagsanjan - Beverly Macanas

Best Man – Ferdinand De Leon Maid of Honor – Victoria Pagsanjan

Groomsmen
Jose Mario Pagsanjan
Michael Andrew Sy
Jose Miguel Villapando

Bridesmaids
Laura Carmela Pagsanjan
Michelle Rosario
Gloria Mendoza

Candle Sponsors – Noel Raymond Dizon and Dionne Marga Larin
Veil Sponsors - Byron Bantilan and Glenise Pearl Purificacion
Cord Sponsors – Anthony Zamora and Rechelle Cacatian

Ring and Coin Bearers – Miguel Angelo and Danilo Raphael Rosario
Flower Girls
Gabrielle Louise San Antonio
Lleanna Pagsanjan
Aaliyah Labial
Jazmine Joyce Perfecto
Zaevel Dimaano

We have been very busy with work and the wed preps, yet with the help of prayer and faith we know we'll make it through….

Wed Updates (August)

2006-08-29T18:56:00.000+08:00

It was a productive wedding prep weekend...

Confirmation Certificate

After singing the national anthem during the opening of the bowling tournament last Saturday at Robinson's Place Manila Paeng's, I headed to Manuel's house, then went for lunch at the SR Thai Cuisine. Wonderful wonderful Seafood rice! The resto is located along P.Noval Street... and I must say I miss being a student!

Then, we went to get a copy of my confirmation certificate, while Manuel was having tummy problems (ahehehe). Later on, we decided to finally buy our...

Wedding Bands

We were able to buy a good deal from China City Plaza located along Ongpin.. imagine getting an almost 50% discount?!!! I guess my charm has its rewards! Ahehehe! Or maybe the Chinese owner just got really tired with my impossible negotiations?!?!

Manuel and I are both very happy.. we kept on trying it on, on our way home. Grabe.. excited na ko!

We were also able to get a copy of his baptismal certificate from Sta. Cruz Church.

Save the Date Card

The following day, we went to Cubao to buy materials for our Save The Date Cards. These we intend to give to our prospect ninongs and ninangs when we visit them (which is hopefully this weekend). And just yesterday we (Kia and myself) finally came up with our proud product!

Yesterday, I also went to look for Manuel's attire... hope we could have this one finalized soon!

This Friday, I'd be picking up my Baptismal Certificate from OLMMP.

Haaayyyy...

Wed Updates (Panic Mode)

2006-08-09T12:50:00.000+08:00

With less than 4 months to prepare for the big day, here are our updates:

CHURCH - ST. PANCRATIUS CHAPEL
I'll pay balance Monday next week. Almost done.

RECEPTION VENUE- TEATRILLO-CASA MANILA
To pay balance also on Tuesday next week. Almost done.

CATERING - KUSINA NI KAMBAL
Paid almost 75% of contract price. To pay balance 1 month prior to event.

GOWNS - FEMALE
Paid 50% of contract price. 3 of the female entourage members still for measurement taking, schedule for posting.

GROOM'S ATTIRE
Still looking for supplier. Huhuhu!

PHOTO/VIDEO - JUNASAN PHOTOGRAPHY
Fully paid. Schedule for pre-nup pictorial maybe 2 months prior to event.

BRIDAL CAR - ADEB TRANS.
Pai d 50% of contract price. The remaining balance to be paid after the event.

EMCEE/COORDINATOR - MARLENE FLORES
Paid 20% of contract price. We have yet to finalize the reception program. I've asked a few friends to help me with the program flow (thanks in advance!).

MUSIC - SJT STRINGS
Paid reservation fee. Two months before the wedding, we would have to finalize the song list both for the church and reception that will be played by SJT.

MISALETTE/CORD
My DIY projects that I haven't started with yet! Target: completed by September 2006!

MARRIAGE LICENSE
We will get one on September also because of its 120 day validity period.

INVITATIONS
Hello? We have to finish the entourage list first! Iyay's friend Xol will be printing the invites for us... I'm not sure though if they will be providing for the paper or otherwise. So we have to start coordinating with Xol ASAP! We will also be needing pouches for the invitations in place of the usual envelopes. We tried searching for my preference in Divisoria last Saturday, but we failed! huhuhu! We will try again perhaps next next weekend in Tabora, hope makakita na kami!

UNITY CANDLE
Is there a standard size for this? Where are we going to purchase one?

HOTEL FOR PREPS AND HONEYMOON
Totally, no payments made yet. We are eyeing Manila Hotel for the historic ambiance and Bohol for our honeymoon. However, these are the last of our concerns.

TABLE CENTERPIECES AND OTHER VENUE DECOR
I'm planning to put up additional centerpieces so that the venue will have a feel of the stars theme. I hope that we could have extra budget for these!

So far that's it! I'm sure with the guidance of the Lord, a supportive family and wonderful helpful friends Manuel and I could have the wedding of our dreams!

Petiks

2006-08-03T13:07:00.000+08:00

Dami ko trabaho!

Miss ko na pumetiks!

Yun lang... trabaho na me ulet!

Glenda and Gloria

2006-07-26T12:29:00.000+08:00

Last Monday, work in govt offices and classes in all levels were suspended due to the typhoon Glenda, coincidentally, t'was also the day the 6th SONA of President Gloria was delivered.

I must say, the SONA sounded and looked different. One thing many would agree on is that it was a very POSITIVE and LIGHT approach that worked very well for PGMA. In my opinion, the opposition also got struck with the presentation where all they have to say was: "All she said were unrealistic plans and unrealized accomplishments." If only the increase in economic chuva figures will be felt by the Filipinos then maybe they would have a change of heart.

Going back, Monday work was suspended for govt offices... and guess where I was while the storm ravaged the country? I was working! My ex-officemates would text me: "Lumipat ka pa kasi eh". The night before, my sister also texted me before going to sleep (magkatabi pa kami niyan sa bed ah): "Pa'nu ba yan gisingin na lang kita ng 5am?" Nakakainis na nakakatawa!

When I was a Guidance Counselor before, I enjoyed the work suspensions brought by Typhoons or Storms because if DECS would declare suspension of classes the teaching staff will have their vacation too. When I transferred to LRTA (govt office), I missed being a Guidance Counselor and the "perks" that come with being one, but later on Presidential Proclamations on work suspensions came to our rescue during lazy daisy days! Now, I belong to a private company, seems serious work is the name of the game... though the Management announced that we could go home at 2:30pm, we have work to finish until 4pm. Huhuhu!

Seems, I can't find contentment anywhere I go. On the other had, if I were content then I wouldn't dream of bigger things that may come my way.

Kris Aquino once said: "The greatest lesson I've learned about life is... you can't have it all!"

Well I guess I'll just have to make the best out of my life and wish that it is the path God has drawn for me to take.

Did I make the right choice?

2006-07-21T12:38:00.000+08:00

Change really sucks! And after a week of being employed in another company I can't help but think (once in a while) if I made the right decision. There are many trade offs, many of which are important ones, like very competent staff, very good and true friends, not to mention the location is quite near home. I miss the good old times when I just have to act as "conductor of the band" and make sure we play good music. Now, it's different. I'm just a mere musician trying so hard to fit in and be part of a big orchestra. From where I came from, popularity has its rewards, friends and love overwhelming. Now, I have to plant my seeds again, prove my worth to strangers, and pray that I may blossom into a beautiful and radiant individual.

Bloom where you're planted.

From LRTA to ATI

2006-07-15T13:00:00.000+08:00

Yup, starting July 17, I have to face a new career challenge. I've been accepted to work at Asian Terminals Inc, basically operates the Ports in South Harbor, Laguna, Bataan and Gen. Santos as Training Specialist. God help me!

Yesterday the whole Line 2 Personnel Office, Butch and Byron surprised me with a going-away lunch treat! They ordered 2 KFC bucket meals, bought a cake, Byron and Elena bought ice cream, Rochelle gave me a pink bag (which is soooo me), and Gloh gave me a pink umbrella (i love it!). I'm totally going to miss you guys! Especially Rochelle's mafia tactics, Glo's butt(need I explain?), Butch's charm and photogenic pictures (hehe), Evan's "OKAY na Ma'am" statement, Vener's effortless humor, Tintin's green jokes, Weng's maniac factor and secrets namin ni Elena! Coincidentally, it was also our Foundation Day so I had to say my goodbyes to all those who have helped me, believed in me and inspired me one way or another like Ma'am Vina, Ma'm Luz, Ma'am Evelyn, Ma'am Ely, Sir Ed, Deputy Administrator Cesar Chavez and Administrator Mel Robles. All of which, I reminded that they'd still be my principal sponsors on my wedding!

To LRTA, thank you for the challenges, struggles and love you have made me experience, for without them I wouldn't be as strong and confident with myself as I am now!

Is it LOVE?

2006-07-14T08:39:00.000+08:00

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't Love, it's Like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't Love, it's Lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't Love, it's Luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.

Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't Love, it's Pity.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't Love, it's Friendship.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't Love, it's a Lie.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't Love, it's Charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's Love.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's Love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's Love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's Love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's Love.

But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's Love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's Love.

Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?

Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...

Love

Wed Preps Update, etc.

2006-07-03T09:56:00.000+08:00

June 30...my brother-in-law-to-be met a car accident at the Rockwell area, and guess what.. by a drunk police officer! Good thing though, neither he nor his gf got hurt. That night, they can't really make any negotiation with the policeman coz he was drunk and kept on showing off his gun when repair costs were discussed! Grrr!!! To make matters worse, the Precint who was supposed to prepare the police report are his comrades! I can just imagine Bebe's disappointment! Their car was towed and parked in the AAP facility until the following day where it was brought to our mechanic, Joey.

JULY 1, 2006
Taking of Measurements
My Bebe had to attend to the car repairs, so he wasn't able to join us for the taking of gown measurements. The group met at the Line 2 Operations Extension Office located at the Recto Station. There were my beautiful flower girls (Aaliyah, Zaivel and Min-min) and their parents, my bes - Glen, one of the bridesmaids - Gloh, my MOH - Iyay, my junior bridesmaid - Kia, Gichelle and her mom Tita Beng who will be doing the gowns! After a long discussion and final changes in color, the entou lined up for the taking of the measurements.

Zaivel - Evan's daughter

Kia while Tita Beng (couturier) takes her measurements

3 of my beautiful flower girls! (Zaivel, Min-min and Aaliyah)

Group 2 schedule to be announced later!

And yes...I have to lose a lot of weight!

JULY 2, 2006

Kusina ni Kambal

We (with Bebe) had our food tasting in Kusina ni Kambal and paid for the downpayment. The food was delicious especially the fish fingers! Yummy! However, I wasn't able to enjoy much of the served food coz I have to watch my diet! Since we can't finish the food all to ourselves, we brought some for my Lola!

Wedding Coordinator

Afterwards, at around 12:30pm, we left for Greenhills to buy Superman tickets. Then off we went to SM Centerpoint to meet with Marlene Cruz-Flores our wedding coordinator. To our surprise, she looked just like bes Glen! A petite girl, who obviously don't look like she's 31, very pleasant, a self-proclaimed OC and easy to talk to! We immediately liked her, and felt confident every nitty-gritty detail of the wedding will be taken cared of! And so... we booked her!

Bebe and I went back to Greenhills to attend mass and do some window shopping, then watched Superman!

Next weekend, wedding rings!

Pampanga Trip

2006-06-19T12:50:00.000+08:00

Pictures taken from our Pampanga trip (hometown of my Dad). They've prepared lechon kawali with homemade sarsa, sugpo, vegetable sumthing, pancit canton, chicharon bulaklak, tilapia, at lumpiang sariwa!

3-Day Food Trip!

2006-06-16T17:37:00.000+08:00

Many says I should go on a diet... sorry to disappoint you guys I had an eating rampage for the last 3 days and here are photos to prove it!

At Tapsi ni Vivian (Wednesday lunch) Had Litsi or Lechon Kawali with Sinangag! (Vener, Evan, Rochelle, Me and Gloh)

At Star Carrots (Thursday lunch treat) Had Sirloin Beef Rice! (Evan, Vener, Dulce, Butch, Rochell, Me, Gloh and Ma'am Vina)

After picking up our grad pics from Colorpoint Studio today, Jhun (driver) and I ate lunch at SR Thai Cuisine! I missed this resto in P. Noval Street near UST! Though, out of excitement I forgot to take pictures! Huhu! We ordered Seafood Fried Rice!

Then, for Jonjon's (husband of Weng, who's on maternity leave) b-day celebration he treated us with 3 boxes of pizza! Gluttony to the highest level merienda!
Counterclockwise from right...Vener, Me, Gloh, Jonjon, Jhun, Rochelle, Dulce and Butch!

And.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAPA! To celebrate my dad's b-day we will go on a road trip to Pampanga for his side of the family has been asking mama's side to visit them. Reunion ito! I'm so excited, of course Bebe will be there, myself and 14 others! hahaha! I guess they'll be serving the old-time faves.. alimango(yum!), lechon kawali (yum yum!) and sugpo (yum! yum! YUm!)

Guess it's a 4-day food trip after all!

Back Blog

2006-06-13T18:01:00.000+08:00

Was it a year? Hmmm... almost!

Backlog or is it backblog? Back to blogging to at least have a documentation of what's going on not only for our upcoming wedding, but anything that has to do with our lives. Just to give an update on our wedding.. here's what we've accomplished so far...

Church - St. Pancratius Chapel, Paco Park, Manila

Reception at the Teatrillo, Casa Manila Patio, food catering and cake by Kusina ni Kambal

Music to be provided by:

Photo and Video Services by:

Bridal Car by : Adeb Cars

Gowns and Rings ---> Friends

At this point we are still looking for an OTD Coordinator, Hotel for preparation and Honeymoon destination. So far, so good.

We've attended Dionne's wedding last June 10, and it was really a blast! Congratulations to my dear friend Dionne that she pulled it off just the way she planned it to be! Grabe gurl, everything was plantsado from start to finish.. OC Bride ka talaga!

Then Sunday, we attended Mass and watched the Omen at the Megamall.

And of course, visited the Perfect Beginnings 3 Exhibit at the Megatrade Hall. We were desperately looking for an affordable OTD. We spotted one, though my Bebe is not convinced with them yet, I think they are the most reasonable choice! Harhar!

Before my day ended that Sunday, we met up with Byron to plan the anniversary celebration of his parents. We met in Gloria Jeans Cubao, together with him are Lito and Philip. Then finally went home at around past 11pm.

The following day .. Independence Day.. I was sick! Nevertheless, we have to attend the anniversary of By's parents. So off we went to Malabon, we fetched Lito, co-hosted with Lito, sang Love Moves... then I was dead tired. I was home sick the next day!

It's nice to see though that while we're preparing for the wedding, we also attended my friend's wedding then By's parent's anniversary... i'm just so surrounded by weddings! blah!blah!blah! Love is all around!

Our First Divi Trip

2005-07-18T22:47:00.000+08:00

We're supposed to go to Divi last Saturday, but because the night before I had a gimmick with my friends, Manuel opted to let me have enough sleep. Instead, we just had dinner at Robinson's Galleria.

Next day, Sunday, our first stop was to book our caterer! It was a short meeting with the owner, finalized the menu, talked about the motiff etc. They promised to fax us the contract the following week!

We stopped over at Robinson's Place Manila, had donuts and bought magazines.

Off we went to Divi. This is the first time for both of us to go to Divisoria on our own! Usually, Manuel goes to Tutuban for field works. While I only shop in Divi during the Christmas season with my cousin Miko to lead us in the best places to buy gifts!

It was quite an adventure I should say! First, was the hunt for a parking space. Second the horrible traffic - to think it was Sunday! Third, we don't know exactly where we're going - and men really have a problem with asking directions! So I relied on my instincts... the last time I was there we were out in search of a wedding gown for my cousin Miko 4 years ago! At last, we found it!

When we entered the building (I guess its along Tabora) , I held the hand of Manuel coz I was overwhelmed by all the salesladies trying to get our attention with their stuff! Manuel even had to walk in front of me, to prevent the salesladies from harassing me! Hahaha! We came upon a store where the people seemed honest and accommodating. The lady asked us questions like: when's the wedding, motiff, etc. She even handed us a catalogue of wedding gowns so I'd have an idea of my dream wedding gown. Actually, beacause of the so many beautiful choices in the catalogue - I almost had a headache! To make the long story short - I just told them that I already have a design though I left it at home! Manuel also liked a barong they were offering - inexpensive but elegant! Now at least we have an idea just about how much its going to cost us for the entourage outfits...

We went to the Tutuban Mall and 168 Mall, and bought a gift for our inaanak Igoy.

Afterwards, we went to Quiapo for Vienna Cakes. The cakes they were offering are really magnificent - just imagine the price tag of a 4-tierred fondant cake *$@#!*&!*! Next stop - Goldilocks, Red Ribbon or Merced!

Since Manuel's already hungry, we stopped for a merienda-lunch at Pares Mami House along Espana. As usual, gluttony na naman kami!

Talk to the members of the entou to finalize the invitations... contract signing with caterer... marriage license next....

Then on our way home, Manuel said:

"Be, grabe, ang dami pa pala nating aayusin!"

I replied (in my thoughts):

"Men...."

Updates Finally!

2005-07-13T22:03:00.000+08:00

Our Office ISP again is down...I am crazy with work...worst of all cramming for our wed preps! Hahaha

Caterer
We had our food tasting with a caterer based in Malate two weekends ago. The food was great, though their set-up needs a total make-over! We were not impressed with the set-up but I think we are still getting their services for our wedding. Teltel and I just agreed that our family florist would just have to work extra in upgrading the set-up. Their wedding package is reasonable and the owners are very accommodating! This Saturday, we're off to book them na! Yahoo!

Cake
Our caterer also said that she will refer us to Vienna Cakes for our wed cake! I read in the latest Metro Weddings Magazine (thanks to Tita Idang for buying a copy for me!) that they have been in the business for quite some time. That's also one of our itineraries on Saturday - to visit their shop and find out how good they are!

Souvenirs
My Tita Idang also showed us a sample of the souvenir we're going to give out. Secret muna. Hehehe

Wedding Theme and Colors
Because my whole family is involved now with the wed preps, and since all of us are Encantadia fanatics, it is final that my wedding theme is something about fairies, magic and enchantment. Will go very well with the Paco Park as my venue! The colors would no longer just be pink and silver, rather it would be pink, purple, mint green and yellow! Haaaayyy... Colors that will look best both during day and nighttime. (daytime?)

Time and Date
Yes. We are moving our wedding from 630pm to 5pm. Same date though.

Videographer and Photographer
We're planning to get the Church's official photog/video man for the job. He has been taking photos of brides for more than 15 years! We think its more than enough credential to qualify him.

Entourage
Our entourage is almost complete! My sister Iyay will be the maid of honor, while his brother Ferdi will be his best man. I have two bridesmaids and he has 2 groomsmen: my other two siblings Kia and Jegs, and his best friend Noel and my cousin Michelle. Our secondary sponsors is composed of our closest friends, one from every clique. Though I haven't told some of my friends yet about their roles- well I'm planning to tell them very soon. Our Ninongs and Ninangs are our bosses from the office and our closest relatives. Our pretty flower girls are the kids of my officemates! The little boys would have to be my cute pamangkins! Yehey!

Gowns/Barongs
Manuel don't seem to like the wedding gown I showed him the other day. He' s complaining about its simplicity and fabric! But I insisted that I want my gown to be simply white and elegant, with a short train, beaded with swarovski crytals. My veil would also be studded with crystals. His barong should also be beaded with crystals with a Chinese collar.

Invitations
Will be going to Divisoria this weekend also for the invites. His officemate referred to us Unifair, where invites are really inexpensive but classy. We'll have to find out!

Documents
Next week I'm scheduled to take my leave to start with my paper for my MBA! Manuel would probably file his leave so we can process our marriage license and other required documents for the Church.

Wedding Bands
Similar to that of the Lord of the Rings, where "love never fails" or"till death do us part" is engraved. Very soon and we're excited about it!

Those are just some of the things that's keeping us busy these past days! Hopefully by next week, our caterer is already booked!

All seems bright and sunny!

Pamamanhikan ng mga De Leon

2005-06-16T12:58:00.000+08:00

De Leon? I really can't believe, in a few months time I'm going to be Mrs. De Leon na!!!

So there we were, last June 11 , 2005 Mommy Nena, his brother Ferdi and Manuel went to our house to formally asky not just my mom but my whole family for my hand in marriage! I was so touched coz in very short notice my whole family was there to witness the first ever pamamanhikan in our generation! My lola and mom welcomed his family, while I stood on some place where I won't be noticed. Without any rational explanation, I feel uneasy or should I say .. windang!

As usual, the date of the wedding was finalized .. December 1, 2005 (wala na talaga atang urungan!) and it will be at the Paco Park. My ever loving Mom even told my future mother-in-law, that I don't know any housechores! Salamat Mama! But according to her, she only said that so Mommy Nena wouldn't have to expect anything from me. My Mommy Nena replied that she would teach me and Manuel all we have to learn to run a decent home. Jealousy was also a topic, and surely Trust, Love and Respect are the very foundations of a lasting and happy marriage. They brought lots and lots of food (pics to follow), grabe! Lechon Kawali, Kalderetang Baka, Pancit Canton/Bihon, Sweet and Sour Giant Lapu-Lapu, Macaroni Salad! I added Roasted Chicken and my Tita Idang brought home-made gelatin (yum!yum!)! Just imagine the calories and pounds I gained in just one sitting!

Turned out, the long awaited meeting of our folks was successful. I also felt that my Mom is now slowly swallowing the truth that her eldest daughter is getting married soon. Kayanin sana ng powers namin ito Lord! 5 months to go!

A Funny Marriage Proposal

2005-06-09T07:46:00.001+08:00

Last June 4, my Teltel and I celebrated our 62nd mini anniversary! Then the long awaited official marriage proposal happened, to my surprise...

We have been planning to visit Fort Santiago in Intramuros coz I have told him that the park has been really developed. That morning, he called me up to check whether I woke up early so we can stroll in the park without having to be scorched by the noon sun. He asked me: "Where will we have lunch?", I replied: I don't want to decide on it now, let's talk about it later!", then he said: "Be, today is the day that you have to decide." ..... Huh? Teltel kept on emphasizing that June 4 is a wonderful day, the sun is shining (coz he prayed for the rain not to pour) and that he loves me .. kilig!!!

Since their house is near the Fort, I decided to just fetch him from his house so at least I get to say hi to his mom! There we were, after a long struggle of getting to the Fort through unknown shortcuts. I'm glad he was excited and amazed about how the Fort has changed.

We walked, talked, and he kept on telling me: "Be, it's a lovely day isn't? I love you... or he would just say out of the blue... "Naku mahal na mahal ko talaga itong babaeng ito!" then he would hug me real tight and kiss me on the cheek or hair.

I said to myself... maybe, Teltel is planning to propose (with the ring this time) because of all the clues he's been showing. I can feel that he's dying to tell me something. We came to a spot where we just passed by the museum which is overlooking the golf course just beside the Fort, and then he stoped and grabbed me to a halt... then said...

"Be, sandali lang, dito muna tayo." He was suggesting to sit right under the shade of a mango tree which I said was overlooking a golf course. Now, I think I'm pretty sure of his intention, and I'd rather he propose to me in a more romantic spot. Harhar! So I pulled him and told him that we should visit the museum first before making any stops. As usual he gave in to my request.

Afterwards, we again returned to that under the mango tree spot, and again he asked if we could stay there for a while and talk. I refused and said that I was tired and we can have a chat instead in the botanical garden/ picnic area which is near the snack bar. So I dragged him for a refreshment.

So he bought me a coke light in can, yan yan, and for himself he bought a regular coke in can. I can feel his nervousness, and he kept on insisting that we eat in a more secluded area (an area where tables are exposed to the sun). Finally, we stayed in a round table with an umbrella just in front of the snack bar.

Then he complained of his aching feet. He has high uric acid kc. He kept on reaching for his foot, massaging it. Then I told him that he should lose weight and watch his diet .. blah.. blah... While he continued to complain about his left foot, and reaching for it, he slowly bent his right knee, and there he was kneeling beside me while I was sipping my coke!

I was shocked. I can just imagine my eyes pop out of amazement! I immediately told him: "Be, tumayo ka jan! Anu ka ba... tayo ka jan!"

So he smiled, sat on the chair and said: "Be, tagal na ng pinagsamahan natin, dapat dati ko pa ito ginawa. Papakasalan mo ba ako?"

"Matagal ko ng sinagot iyan" I said.

"Gusto ko marinig ulit." he said.

While I was sipping my coke through my straw, and with both my hands glued to my soda can, I uttered .. MMM-MMM (nodding).

"Anung MMM-MMM?" he said.

"Siyempre." I replied.

He tried to open the box to show me the ring. Then I said: "Be... mamaya mu na lang buksan iyan."

"Bakit?"

"Hindi ko ata kaya makita!" --- Inarte na naman ako!

"Sige na", he even said, he was the one who chose the diamond, and had the store open their vault so he can pick out the best one ( he used lenses and researched on the how to choose the best rock!) He added: "Bakit natatakot ka ba sa ginastos ko jan?". It's true, I'd really feel guilty if the ring he's give me is so so expensive!

So I said, "Ok, just give me 6 minutes to prepare myself!"

6 minutes passed.

He opened the box, and... I closed my eyes (hehehe).

Then I told him to just wear it on my finger. He did. And when I opened my eyes, there it was, a sweet diamond, placed in a tiffany styled (accdg to him) ring. I loved it. Simple but elegant. Haaaayyyy... It was really worth the wait.

I love you Bebe. So much.

Kathy's Dad's Wake

2005-06-03T17:34:00.000+08:00

Our Friendly Friends' condolences to Cathy and her family for the lost of her Dad... surely he has gone to the Paradise God has promised.

We went to Kathy's Dad's wake in Las Pinas yesterday, June 2. Dionne, Joven, Iyay and myself met in our Office in Pasay, then went to Blue Wave in Dios. Macapagal Blvd. to meet the rest of our friends... Anne, Sam, Beej, Mem, and surprisingly.. Andrew! Had a quick dinner at Jollibee then sped off to Las Pinas coz, it was already quite late.

After a long trip (coz we got a little lost), we finally arrived and was welcomed by Kathy and her Mom. Siyempre... since it was the first time.. in a long time that the friendly friends have been reunited, kuwentuhan to the highest level! As usual for a kada that loves picture-taking, here are some of our snapshots!

Left Las Pinas at 10:30 pm, after the very long goodbyes, and proceeded to Teltel's house coz its the birthday of his Mom! Imagine second dinner for the evening? No wonder I'm getting fatter! HUhuhu! Teltel's mom served callos, fried chicken, lumpiang shanghai, cake, macaroni salad... Thanks Mommy (soon to be) for a sumptuous meal!

My B-day Bash

2005-05-30T08:14:00.000+08:00

Just turned 27, and everything just gets better!

Had a mini-celebration last May 25 in our house in Project 4! Office kada and office mates came to dine and sing, dance... some kinda got drunk! It was really fun! My cousin Michelle did all the cooking-- seemed like a kid's b-day party bcoz the food served were spaghetti, fried chicken, lumpiang shanghai, cake, leche flan (courtesy of Rochelle's Dad! - thanks!) Harhar! My bro and sis even had greetings plastered on our wall!

The following day (my actual birthday), I spent the whole day with my Teltel! Saya!

Quality Time

2005-05-09T06:59:00.000+08:00

After a stressful week, Manuel and I had a pretty good time bonding on our 61st month celebration and Subic trip.

Last Wednesday, May 4, had an interview with .. bleeeep.... turned out it was okay, and had my exam after at the Ortigas Center. However, if they are to consider me for the position, higher compensation is my priority! Hmm...hhmmm...

So Bebe and I had dinner at Glorietta, and talked about the funny things we had to say to each other two days ago.. breaking up and returning of gifts.. hehehe. At least we can laugh about it huh?

Thursday, He had to work at the Office eventhough he's on rest day, while I went to a friend's house in Angono, Rizal to have dinner and have a booze. Well, I just had dinner and my friends forced me to eat siniguelas! (Eeeewww) Thanks to Shella for the invitation - although your grandma's house is really freaky, perfect setting for horror movies... There was also this unfinished painting by Bo Francisco a renowned painter, a huge bedroom with a jacuzzi with brass bath fixtures...lots of other spooky paintings that looked as if the portraits were looking back at me...Thank God I didn't have nightmares!

Saturday, we woke up early for our Subic trip. It was a Fun Familia Affair of SMART, where the brother of Bebe works, and he asked us to come along, so off we go for Ocean Adventure and Camaya Beach! Yahoo!!! It was first time to go to Subic, so I was really excited! We (Manuel, Me, Ferdi and Jen)left Makati at 5:30am and arrived at Ocean Adventure at around 9:00am. First stop, Dolphin and Whale Show! Fantastic!

Then, we had to wait for the sea lion show at 12nn, so we visited the awesome aquarium, where I met Nemo in person (or in fish?)! There was also a mini zoo for rescued animals. Afterwards, went to see the Sea Lion Show starring Simba! Oh she was so adorable! She can do so many tricks and she was really funny!

Had lunch courtesy of SMART again.

After a sumptuous lunch - the caterer was Queensland ( I think we are also going to check them out for our wedding caterer!) we went to change for our swimming attire! We went swimming at 2:00pm.. hahaha, submerging ourselves under water is better than having to stay under the scorching sun beside the beach huts!

I think I missed Manuel that much, I clung to him almost every moment we were together at Subic. Haaayyy.. love talaga.. weird.

Yesterday, Mother's Day, the whole family again was in our house to celebrate! My Bebe was also there to join us, plus there are lots of food to consume!

Another Chance

2005-05-03T10:44:00.000+08:00

Breaking up sucks, but the journey towards an ending brings important lessons.

After a lot of pre-pre-wedding jitter issues last Thursday, I met with my bestest friend Byron. We talked over dinner and coffee at the Metro Walk in Ortigas.. ok din pala dun. He's one of the friends I have who can really be straight-forward with me, so he's the best person to talk with.

Talk... rant.. complain...relax...breathe...

So it boils down to improving our communication, honesty and understanding. As if, I didn't know.

Sometimes, even if the answers are right there in front of us, we deny ourselves seeing them. And wait until an angel comes flying down from the heavens and spank us with the hard but hopeful truth, that there's still a reason to love and believe in it.

At first, I was ready to let go, and thought it was easy. I offered friendship, but turned out, we deserved another chance.

Commitments made:

1. Don't be pressured by the Dec. 1 wedding date. If we are really meant for each other, we will get wed. Besides we can still adjust the wedding date if we are not really ready for it this year.

2. Focus on our individual careers. Before we settle down, this should be our primary concern, especially in very hard times. Dedication to work alongside dedication to our relationship - nothing's impossible.

3. Openness. Communication. Honesty (though the truth hurts most of the time).

4. Start anew.

There are so many things I can deny, but I can't deny that I do love him.

Thanks to Dionne and Aggie - for your sweet thoughts! mWAh!

Talk about Pre-Pre-Wedding Jitters

2005-04-28T15:18:00.000+08:00

Being a W@wie makes me realize more and more everyday how marriage or weddings change the lives of people. From proposals, engagements, preparations, there is a certain discovery in every phase you take – for some they may be exciting… for me-scary. The more I read my w@w e-mails, the more I am able to measure up to the accomplishments of others as compared to what we have… even if I try to understand our current situation, sometimes I can’t help but feel sad about it.

Manuel and I have been together for more than 5 years now. It’s filled with happy, sad memories. Yeah, we fight – but he always, always let me win. I can almost say, he treats me like a Queen, what more I can ask for. I’m terrified of the thought of having to break-up with him, coz I might not find anyone who would love me as much as he does. But is love really enough to make marriage work?

A friend told me a while ago, you should love a person not "because", but rather "inspite of". Being the stubborn perfectionist that I am, I can’t help but notice a few shortcomings, then make a big deal out of it. Arguing with him was never difficult, he loves me so much that he lowers down his pride, just to give in to my every whim. Do I actually see myself living with this man who denies speaking out his feelings in difficult situations, and let me handle it? Or am I just rude and selfish?

It’s true what a co-w@wie said, wed preps are stressful – financially, psychologically and emotionally. While I’m writing this post, I am thinking of quitting and backing-out. Maybe I’m not ready, or maybe we are both not ready for it. Maybe I’m just forcing myself into this marriage because this is a goal I have set for myself – to marry at the age of 27. Maybe I’m not prepared for the many things I have to give up for him, and the many sacrifices I’ll have to face soon after. How about Freedom? Sanity? Conveniences? Life?

Today, maybe one of the saddest days of my life.

I pray that God would grant me the grace to face my challenges with courage, wisdom and discernment to live my life according to His will. For if not, I’m totally doomed.

Our New House, Ja Rule and Feast for a King and Queen

2005-04-25T16:52:00.000+08:00

Finally, we have moved in to our newly constructed house in Proj. 4! Our mini-mansion we call it! We have been cleaning the house since Friday coz all of my relatives are excited to visit us in our new pigeonhole ... hehehe. I practially scrubbed the floor, coz the St*p8id! painters left paint drippings on our tiles! All in all, we were satisfied, especially with the view at the roof deck (Cubao landscape).. so what's exciting about that? Hehe. Our neighbors even thought that we won the lottery because all of a sudden we demolished our old house and started building a new one, when it was also known in our area that someone has won the lottery in project 4! I JUST WISH!

Kitchen/ Dining Area

Bedroom

Later Saturay evening we watched the Ja Rule Concert at the Araneta Coliseum. My mom had to drag me to Riverbanks Mall to buy food ingredients for the b-day celebration of my lolo and lola the following day! Even if Manuel and I had to meet in Cubao by 7pm, we (with Iyay and Mike) arrived an hour late! And to add to my annoyance, my car's engine overheated! Grrr... Good thing, Ja Rule was cute and funny, not to mention raw talent. Hip hop fanatics were all over the Coliseum, singing to his songs, some of which I'm unfamiliar with. It was a short concert and Ja Rule just sang for one hour - it was worth it coz he took his shirt off - and boy he was DELICIOUS!

Next day, Sunday, all of my relatives (mother's side) were there in our house, singing to endless songs of the videoke! My Tita Idang brought crabs, gelatin and halo-halo. My cousin cooked chicken afritada and palabok. It was a small feast for two wonderful people who inspire us with love and affection ....

my Lolo Pat and Lola Crising!

We wish you good health and long life on your birthday!

Buking! But I was Moved!

2005-04-18T19:46:00.001+08:00

Mama doesn't know yet about the serious wed preps! All she knows is we're PLANNING to have the wedding in December of this year.. yun lang! Teltel has yet to make the pamamanhikan pa, so wed preps are on hold. No worries coz the date, church and venue have already been reserved.

Going back...I was buking nga! My mom asked me to compose a letter to Mayor for a cousin who's asking my assistance, so her child can transfer to a city school. That school requires a recommendation coming from the Mayor's Office! Mama is actually asking me to sign in that letter asking for that recommendation! She even said that Mayor would be most glad to accommodate the request coz he still owes me the scholarship he promised me way back 2000 - part of my prize.. in a contest you wouldn't want to know! Composing the letter is easy, but to ask Mayor AGAIN for another favor is something else! Aaaah!

So I told my Mom the truth:

Our phone conversation went...
Cri-c: Ma, may sasabihin ako sau...
Mama: Anu yun?
Cri-c: Kasi mejo nahihiya na me kay Mayor eh.
Mama: Bakit naman, matutuwa pa nga yun, tsaka its one way to remind him of the scholarship he still owes you <---- oh nooohhh
Cri-c: Sumulat kc Ma ako sa kanya, to ask him to be our Principal Sponsor sa wedding and endorsement so we can get discount sa rental ng venue! And pumayag siya!
Mama: Talaga! <---genuine glad, Naku edi kelangan paghandaan talaga yan!
Cri-c: Ay naku Ma, ayoko ng umasa dahil politics lang un! Gusto ko lang talaga endorsement niya para makatipid!
Mama: You can never tell. <--concerned tone
Cri-c: In my thoughts...Puede ba ako tumambling!?

I was touched.. my mom is actually concerned about my wed preps! I don't actually expect her to fully support me at this stage coz the pamamahikan has not taken place.. yet. Whenever I talk about wedding preparations or show off my latest wed magazines or talk anything about weddings, she would grumble "bakit namanhikan na ba?". I know Mama, hindi pa. Before, it was hurting coz I felt she really doesn't care about my feelings, or she doesn't like Manuel for my hubby. Or maybe she's just scared of the thought of me having a life of my own - away from her, that a man she barely knows is taking away her precious eldest daughter. Whatever her reasons are, I give her space and time - its her first time to handle a situation like this anyway!

Another revelation happened yesterday, when we were at our house in Project 4, getting ready to move in our mini-mansion! It looks like a big house from the outside but, is actually composed of a main house and 2 studio-type room rentables! I asked her if we can place the double-deck bed in the 2nd floor room where she and Kia will be sharing. At first, she argued that a master's bedroom shouldn't have a double-deck bed! Then afterwards, she said it's okay since there was really no space to put the big bed anywhere in the house. So I told her: "Ma, don't worry, aalis na rin naman ako." as if saying, if I leave the house you'll have more space to yourself. My mom replied:" Dito ka na lang tumira." My heart melted! I really felt loved.

I love you too Mama! And I'll devote all my life to making you proud!

Graduation of Iyay

2005-04-14T07:01:00.000+08:00

Yesterday is Iyay's graduation day! Had to take a vacation leave for my Sis' graduation at the PICC- a momentous occasion for her and for the whole family. My sis Iyay graduated with a a degree in AB Behavioral Science. I guess she really wants to be part of the HRD like her pretty Ate (ahem!) The cermony was not really solemn coz many of the students were shouting and the program was not organized. The guests and parents had to squeeze in the entrance doors just to get a good seat. Iyay had 5 tickets, 2 for the parents and 3 for guests. The guests had to sit at the balcony (Me, Kia and Jegs), then after a few moments of being frozen inside the Hall, we decided to eat Hahaha!

What really touched me most was when the Magna Cum Laude from their course gave his speech. Although many would find his talk a bit dull and boring because he has a very soft voice (seems like he's sharing a poem), the message was clear: "Don't be afraid of the many trials that come our way, we can always make it!" The Thomasian spirit was very alive that afternoon. I almost cried when every Thomasian stood up and sang the UST Hymn! I did cry when the AB Chorale rendered a beautiful farewell song!

Here are some pics...

Of course, Graduation would never be complete without a celebration dinner. My Lola was with us, so we have to pick a Chinese resto... hmmm... Super Bowl will be perfect!

More pics...

Iyay, Lola, Mama, Kia and Jegs

Kia, Cri-c, Iyay

Me and Iyay

The Hectic Week That Was

2005-04-11T19:53:00.000+08:00

April 4 - Monday
It's our 5th year anniversary! Bebe arrived in Manila from Palawan at around 630pm. I found a lame excuse to work in Pasay late that afternoon so me and my Bebe can at least have dinner on our special day! We had dinner at our fave resto in Malate - Wok Inn! We ordered Squid with terriyaki sauce, yang chow rice, corn soup, stuffed tofu and tempura-- HEAVEN! While letting indigestion get the best of us... we sat in a bench while watching the colorful fountain located beside the Aristocrat Resto, and I surprised Teltel with a gift! Course... he was surprised! We sat on a bench like Richard Gomez and Regine Velasquez in their movie Kailangan Ko'y Ikaw! It felt like I was on the clouds having to lean on him , feel his comfort, his love, not minding all the people that were passing by. Whenever I am hugged by Teltel, it really feels like heaven, and I couldn't ask for more (unbelievable but true).
April 5 to 7
Work to the highest level! The 4 day workweek has started for all government employees including myself, which actually is favorable for me. I get to save money for fuel, and I usually arrive and stay at the office around that time naman (730am to 6:30pm). Plus, I get to have one more day-off! Hope the government would opt to make this permanent!
April 8 - Friday
I had to go to our Pasay Office for some overtime work with my pretty boss Ma'am Vina. Afterwards, I have to leave by 3pm because I will be buying a gift for my bestest Byron. Today, me, Teltel, bestest and my office ka-berks will go to Star City! So while waiting for my Teltel in Glorietta, because he still has work on Fridays, I bought 2 red briefs for my Bestest! I just dunno how he would react--- hope he'd like it! Teltel arrived at Glorietta at around 530 and went straight to Star City we're my friends are waiting.
We had free tickets courtesy of our nurse - thank you Loida! Since everyone was there already, except Vener and Weng, we had our dinner and rode the Lion King Story book ride, Flying Carpet (my fave), Zyklone Loop, Wild River, Ferris Wheel, entered the Gabi ng Lagim Horror House and Ice Sculpture Exhibit!

It was a fun and tiring experience. Went home past 12mn, coz we had to fetch Iyay from her classmate's house in Cainta! Haay...
April 9 - Saturday
Have an appointment with a prospective caterer in Villa Monica in Pateros. They were supplying a wedding that time, but since we came early, the guests haven't arrived yet. After the food tasting (where my Teltel concluded that we will still be getting Batis Asul), we went outside to find out that our car is blocked by more than 10 vehicles. There is possibly no way of getting out because even the driveway was blocked! I was so pissed, because we were in the middle of nowhere, did'nt like the food, and now... we have to wait for the wedding and reception to finish??!! Hellouer! So we just decided to leave the car in the resort and come back for it at 10pm. So we rode a jeepney, MRT and finally reached Glorietta. After watching Hide and Seek we went back to Villa Monica, and thank God my car was the only one left in the parking lot!
April 10 - Sunday
Iyay and Mike will be taking their CSC Exam in Pamantasan ng Makati, so we woke up really early because we still need to buy their pencils, and will be fetching Mike from work at the Katipunan Station. We met Teltel at the house in Proj 4 coz his brother offered to give him a ride to Makati. We had a drive-thru breakfast courtesy of Jollibee! Then we proceeded to the venue. Since Teltel and I had to wait for them to finish their exam, we drove around Makati and the Fort finding for a spot to sleep (as in tulog with hilik). Finally we parked in the Fort just infront of the NBC tent and had a few Zzzzzsss. We went back to Makati to pick up Iyaya and Mike, and they said the exam was totally difficult! Good thing I already passed it! We went to Project 4 to check out the progress of the house construction and to pick up Mama. Went home at around 7pm, again tired. Dozed off at 9pm.

Miss ko na BEBE!!!

2005-04-02T22:59:00.000+08:00

It's already April 2, 2 days to go and we'll be celebrating our 5th year as a couple! And I miss him badly coz he's in Palawan and will be coming back to Manila on Monday pa - which is our 5th year anniversary! Huhu

Maybe this is the best time to reminisce how the two of us became lovers (lovers daw oh?).

Year 1999, when chatting became my addiction, I met Noel Dizon. As usual, first we were chatmates, then became friends, then finally decided to personally meet (EB). Since I was still studying then in UST, we agreed to meet after my classes at the UST Main Bldg! I had to bring my Friendly Friends along - moral support? hehehe... Noel was with his two best buddies... a thin, weird-looking guy, and the other is a handsome fellow clad in tight-fitting clothes! I told myself - hmmm... prospect (ung cute na guy ha!)! So we were introduced, and found out his name was Manuel! Next stop, we had a snack at Miggy's in Dapitan. Since Noel brought his batmobile, they offered to give us a ride - i was with my friendly friend Anne! Noel and Alex was really fun to talk with - while Manuel was quiet and it occurred to me that he wasn't interested in me (huhu!). Like I was always a best friend material - never the girlfriend!

Does he actually think I easily give up? I really liked him the first time I saw him. I can almost say it was love at first sight. So, i pursued him, until we became friends. We talked on the phone every night and went on a date a couple of times. Flirting in action? Many would say so, but my mind was set, I was young, bold and adventurous. My goal was - to get to to know him better, and make him fall for me --> or should I say its an EVIL plan? Manuel (or Bebe or Teltel) during that time was heartbroken, so it was the perfect opprtunity for me to get my hands on him! Haha!

One day, a friend of mine, Tere,teased me by texting Manuel without my knowledge and asked him to go out that night - it was April 4, 2000. Out of curiosity, Manuel called me up after receiving the message coz he can't actually believe I was the one asking him out! (If he only knew... the evil plot!) We went out that evening, had dinner at 2am in Bourbon Cafe in Makati , and guess what...a year later of being friends - we decided to take our friendship to the next level with a kiss.

What started out as a mere childish adventure turned out to be my most cherised desire - to love him for the rest of my life.

Haaayyy.. i just wish its April 4 na!

Job Fair and Food Tasting

2005-03-22T08:40:00.000+08:00

Just attended the Job Fair held at the Megatrade Hall last Saturday and Sunday. I was with Iyay, Bebe and Mike. Saturday evening we went to Blissful Occasions 6 - Bridal Fair and Food tasting of Josiah's Catering. The food was okay, however, mejo stiff sila when it comes to changing the menu. All in all, Batis Asul pa din kame ni Manuel!
Yesterday, I received a call from the Office of the Mayor and I got a favorable response from them! Yeheeey!

SMART also called, and they said my cellphone is ready for pick-up na! Seems like my stars are aligned for a good fortune!

December 1, 2005, St. Pancratius Chapel, Paco Park

2005-03-15T19:20:00.000+08:00

At last, it's official (with official receipt, hehehe)! We have reserved the chapel and park all to ourselves on the evening of December 1! Kaya lang we haven't told my mom yet...so what could be final now, may not be final after the pamamanhikan!

Anyway... oh happy day!

One At A Time

2005-03-14T19:18:00.000+08:00

There was one time my Bebe told me.. I was so APURADA! I often rush things, accomplish tasks immediately or else I'll go bitching. While I was scanning my files, I read of an article about geminis, and confirmed what my Bebe said, to quote "Geminis like to do many things at the same time. Do not hold back a Gemini or you may lose him/her, as they are restless and need change in life constantly."

So that explains why...

I guess being restless has its advantages and disadvantages. An advantage is - through Bebe, we were able to finally reserve the Paco Park for December 1. Tomorrow, we'll have the rescheduling of the wedding at the Parish Office. By the end of the week, all reservations for the wedding are accomplished. This Saturday we'll be attending another food tasting at the Coconut Palace - Josiah's Catering. Busy bee! Lots to do, so little time...

Bebe even had time to go to Binondo to look for potential wedding rings (or bling-bling in his language).

Last night, we were also able to draft our wedding invites, through the help of my very talented brother Jegs! But that would be a surprise!

Paco Park - Isn't glorious?!

2005-03-14T18:49:00.000+08:00

A usual afternoon at the Paco Park...

Concert at the Park featured Makiling Talents

Evening at the Paco Park

Friendly Friends

2005-03-14T18:34:00.001+08:00

4F at the Rizal Stadium, Tour of Manila and Food Tasting!!!

2005-03-13T12:09:00.000+08:00

I thought last Friday would be the most tiring day for me last week, seems it was not! Michael, Iyay and myself went to the CSC so they can file an application for the CSC Exams. It took us 6 hours just to file an application which included going to the NBI processing center in Carriedo! Afterwards, we went to SM Manila to have lunch a.k.a dinner and delivered a personal letter to the Office of the Mayor (Manila). I just hope my request gets a favorable action! Then we went to Paco Park, to watch the Concert at the Park (featuring Makiling Talents) also, so we can do some sight-seeing of the chapel and park during the evening. The place really captured my heart.

Yesterday Saturday, me and my office ka-berks attended the Fun and Festivities For Females program at the Ninoy Aquino Stadium. We execised and listened to short talks about the Women’s Month.

Who's the guy in the pic... that's actually Efren Bata Reyes in the flesh!!! Unfortunately.. his assistant failed to capture his face in the photo! Grrr!

After some boring speeches, we went to Intramuros because Glo (my assigned P.A. – hehehe!) wanted to show me Barbara’s restaurant, and a couple of potential venues for a garden wedding reception. Intramuros is my kind of place. History captivates my taste and I fell in love with Casa Manila Patio located at Plaza San Luis Complex. The venue is great for weddings and debuts. For 100 guests and less it is perfect especially if someone is to be wed at the Intramuros area. I have to let go of the Patio because we are expecting 120+ guests on our wedding and besides imagine the trouble of a guest having to travel from Paco Park to Intramuros. Soon-to-wed couples should also check out Barbara’s resto, their function room is so so elegant and classy, serves delicious food (accdg. to Glo) and is not expensive!

Afterwards went to Fort Santiago and had some pictures taken.

Where's Evan???
Fort La Guardia

Had lunch at KFC. After eating two pieces of chicken and rice plus coleslaw, we went to Paco Park (again) part of our Manila Tour. Soon after, we picked up Bebe and they dropped us off at the Legarda Station where my car is parked. Bebe and I were in the process of deciding which caterer to choose, and we have finalized on holding the reception at the Paco Park (finally!)! We even had a glimpse of the Paco Park again (3rd time this week) that evening because one of our prospective caterers will supply a wedding.

By 630 pm, we went to Timog Avenue for a food tasting with another caterer. We found the food to be delicious and the suppliers were really down-to-earth and friendly. Bebe and I found a certain feeling of rapport with the group that eventually made us decide put them in our number 1 spot!

Our discussion put me into thinking… shall I stick to the pink/silver/white color motif or change it to midnight blue/ yellow… Arrrrggghhh!

It's Women's Day.. My Day.. My Tragic Day...

2005-03-08T23:03:00.000+08:00

Happy Women's Day to all my girlfriends!!!

This morning went to the Clamshell in Intramuros to attend the Intl. Women's day Celebration together with Malou (officemate) and other delegates from the DOTC. The program was informative (boring part) and entertaining (fun part). What struck me was that when the DJ played Chocolate, everyone really stood up and danced to the music! Even the very old participants didn't mind being "dyahe". Karina David was the invited speaker who gave a nice speech on the different roles women play in society. There was also Chair Yao of the NCRFW who talked about the achievements and goals of the Commission.

We took pictures... picture lang pala, the shots of my camera were already exhausted. Pinasyal ko lang yung camera (tragedy no. 1).

I went to my Bebe's house to finalize the venue of our planned reception for our planned wedding. Turned out that the venue was no longer available, and that we have to consider changing the planned schedule! Huhu! I was so depressed because I really want it to be an evening affair on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception in Paco Park! (tragedy no. 2)

Bebe and I met at Glorietta and talked about the change in plans. Well... here goes panic catching up! We can't scout for other venues/ caterers on Saturday because I have to attend the Women's Month Celebration at the Rizal Stadium together with my other officemates. So, we only have the afternoon of Saturday to do it (tragedy no.3).

I learned something about.. and it was really disappointing (tragedy no. 4).

And to think its MY DAY!!!! Haaay...

Wedding Expo, Pizza, Pasta & Friends

2005-03-06T13:53:00.000+08:00

Yesterday was really a fun and interesting day for me. I met with my bestest friend Byron for a bonding session over the Go Nuts Donuts in the Fort, coz later on he'll accompany me in the wedding expo in the NBC Tent. Surprisingly, we saw Dionne and her future hubby Joven! They have with them a paperbagfull of various flyers and brochures from the expo. I was so excited of the finds and it was really a good source of ideas and for planning the budget for a wedding. Byron and I, while waiting for my Bebe, had donuts, fries and coffee. I had to bring my laptop with me because I promised to help By with his application letter for (secret).

Anyway, Teltel finally came and we immediately went to the expo because it was already 6:00pm! Both Byron and I have previous engagements at 7:30pm so we need to hurry! Since Tel and I are a couple we did not have to pay for any registration fee, my friend By had to pay 50 bucks! Hahaha! The Tent was filled with people, couples, booths, brochures! It was HEAVEN! Everything I'll ever need for the wedding was right there, all in one place. Catering, invitations, flowers, souvenirs, wedding coordinators, gowns to chocolate fountains (I probably won't need the last one!)! I also met one of By's friends who beads gowns and offered to do my gown in a discounted rate (wonderful!)

Afterwards, I had to drop Byron off to Galleria, then we proceeded to Napoli's. It was a nice cozy place. There was Dionne, Joven, BJ, Anne and Andrew. We ordered 3 diferent kinds of pasta and 1 humongous pizza! Everyone was asking about how our wedding plan was goin about. Hmmm.... i just said:"Stop worrying about it... I'm not!" Me and Teltel are just taking our time and carefully planning the engagement, pamamanhikan first before anything else. Although we have already set the date and venue of the wedding, we have to stick to family traditions.

We went home at around 1130pm (not sure), after having coffee in Cafea.

Went home tired but happy.

2005-03-05T09:53:00.000+08:00

My True Colors

4 years and 11 months

2005-03-04T16:48:00.000+08:00

4 years and 11 months na kami ni Teltel! I can't believe that by next April 4, we'll be celebrating our 5th year together. Time really flies.. sometimes I feel I can't catch up..and December 2005 is fast approaching. Hehe... December 2005 will hold a special meaning in my life, I just hope that with the time given me from now until Dec, things wouldn't feel like we're cramming. But no worries, with my family and friends... I'm almost sure everything will be great!

If that would even push through.......

Me and my Teltel will go on a date tonight, probably watch a movie and have dinner (the usual). I think we'll have to watch Hitch!

To totally ruin my mini anniversary day, I had to call an officemate to confront her about how her being tactless led my boss to belive that I'm actually imposing new rules in the office! But before I called her up I knew I had to express my thoughts and feelings straight even if that would mean I had to hurt her with the hard truth! Of all people, I hate those kind that act differently when you're around (tupperware kind!). She should know that she cannot fool me with her sweet smiles. I had to tell her for she was really getting on my nerves! We talked and talked, I asked, she explained.

Know what I found out? Getting angry would not put me in a position where my heart and mind would be open for her explanations. Yes, I was angry, but while talking with her, my anger faded. I am not really the type of person to stay mad for long, but I made sure that I got my message across. She apologized and I had to report to my boss's office on Monday for what she did (Grrrr!)! So did the apology help?

I just consoled myself to the thought that life sometimes isn't fair. Eventhough you're honest and dedicated to your work, some people just don't appreciate it. To hell with them! Least I know, at the end of time, I've lived my life with a purpose.

Sarap ng First Time!

2005-03-03T21:41:00.000+08:00

Thanks to my friend Dionne for sharing with me this venue where I can speak (type in wehweh!) my thoughts and feelings out! Friends are great listeners, lovers are even better, but blogs are great for keeping and sharing special memories and moments!
Like my friend Dionne who just got engaged with her soulmate Joven (congrats!) its nice to meet two people who were classmates in elementary and ends up getting engaged (soon to be married!) Wow, love really moves in mysterious ways!

I was really excited about having to start this blog thing, and more excited of the things I'll learn from everyday hereon and write them down to remind me in the future, and those who would like to share my experiences.

Sarap talaga ng first time sa blog!

Heaven - is a song sung by DJ Sammy - i really love the lyrics of this song! Talks about having to meet the person God has intended you to love for you to find heaven here on earth!

Sarap din ng first time ma-inlove!

Adios!